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by Al Turtle on Thu 17 Mar 2005 08:40 AM PST
invalidation to happen.     Eventually I came up with, and tested
by Al Turtle on Thu 17 Mar 2005 11:35 AM PST
invalidity of the other.  Persuasion is built upon pre-invalidation.  Persuasion is Master/Slave
by Al Turtle on Thu 10 Nov 2005 05:28 PM PST
invalidating, and simply sustains damage.  In the adult relationship, people can try to invalidate
by Al Turtle on Thu 02 Nov 2006 08:34 AM PST
invalidate someone (present or absent).   This is a response to the tone of invalidation
by Al Turtle on Wed 05 Jul 2006 08:29 AM PDT
invalidate them. This is a response to the tone of invalidation. The purpose is to treat
by Al Turtle on Fri 07 Apr 2006 08:58 AM PDT
Invalidation – Any experience of feeling misunderstood.    I use this word sometimes to describe
by Al Turtle on Thu 31 May 2007 09:45 AM PDT
Invalidating someone is Cursing.  Pre-Invalidating someone, sending the message that you won’t
by Al Turtle on Mon 14 Nov 2005 07:45 AM PST
invalidating statement, they tend to strongly jump on it.  E.g. “I was doing nothing
by Al Turtle on Wed 20 Jul 2005 04:06 PM PDT
invalidated.   If he listened and witnessed and validated her emotional steam, she might
by Al Turtle on Tue 02 Aug 2005 04:58 PM PDT
invalidation. Divorce that old relationship. Don't divorce your partner. Fighting in a marriage or relationship
by Al Turtle on Wed 16 Mar 2005 04:02 PM PST
Invalidation: The posture of persuasion, based on the internal assumption that others don't make
by Al Turtle on Wed 07 Nov 2007 10:57 AM PST
invalidating someone. So, when I try to validate him and focus completely on validating him, we'll be in a fight
by Al Turtle on Thu 14 Jun 2007 09:39 AM PDT
invalidating.   I believe that if you think someone made a “wrong” decision, you are uninformed
by Al Turtle on Sun 25 Mar 2007 12:35 PM PDT
invalidate their partner, I will reflect out loud on their partner’s validity, PreValidating the silently
by Al Turtle on Mon 13 Jun 2005 05:57 PM PDT
invalidating.   I believe that if you think someone made a “wrong” decision
by Al Turtle on Wed 26 Oct 2005 11:52 AM PDT
invalidate" their partner in my presence.  I believe I do them a disservice if I let them
by Al Turtle on Tue 10 May 2005 11:42 AM PDT
invalidated.   Check out my paper on Healing Resentments .   Childhood wounds are the memories
by Al Turtle on Tue 31 Jan 2006 01:42 PM PST
Invalidate them   $  -25 to -500 @ Active or passive lying   $  -50 to - 500 @ Try to persuade
by Al Turtle on Wed 18 Jul 2007 07:19 AM PDT
invalidated – Diversity more or less close to splitting up or divorcing – Choice Point
by Al Turtle on Thu 02 Nov 2006 08:36 AM PST
invalid.   When I show my sense while stating that someone else doesn’t make sense
by Al Turtle on Mon 08 Mar 2010 10:35 AM PST
invalidate you or that validate only for show.   They play the part of &ldquo
by Al Turtle on Sun 18 Sep 2005 12:15 PM PDT
Invalidating.   By this time Sandra and I had stopped offering GTLYW Workshops as what
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