A-MAZ-ING. amazing. I am strongly pursuing the biological dream for myself and my son. My husband wants little to do with it ... I think. He acts like he wants nothing to do with it, and he SAYS he wants nothing to do with it, but then he has changed most things that I have asked (demanded) him to - to the best of his ability (no yelling at our son, quit arguing with me, our son needs more autonomy, and I want to homeschool). I love your articles Al (and I would love to edit them :) some of them really need it ). So, I have read that you believe police and military have the worst chance of fulfilling the BD - and I instinctively can guess why. He is police and was military, but then so was I - and I have fully realized my desire for it ... so how do I get him on board? What is my best chance?