You've got to have a Map: to know where you came from, where you are, where you want to be, and how to get there.

View Article  Vintage Love: What does it look like?
I got this question, recently. Apparently in my Map of Relationships I have not described it enough. I guess I just referred to it as a "place" that people, all people want to go to. Well, ok, I'll share some thoughts on it.   more »
View Article  The Map of Relationships: A Chart
This is a chart of my understandings of how intimate relationships work. Printable B&W and Color versions.   more »
View Article  Listen to, and/or read, the whole (unabridged) Map of Relationships
I’ve posted the unabridged Map of Relationships in both written script and narrated MP3 versions. Print the Map itself and use it as you read or listen along.    more »
View Article  Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part VII
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part VII, Final Points.   more »
View Article  Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part VI
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part VI, Questions and Answers.   more »
View Article  Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part V
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part V, the Other Doors.   more »
View Article  Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part IV
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part IV, Relationship Framework.    more »
View Article  Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part III
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part III, Part One of the Map of Relationships   more »
View Article  Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part II
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part II, Blind Alleys.   more »
View Article  Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part I
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part I, Introduction.    more »
View Article  Map of Relationship, Short Form
When I don't have much time with an audience, I often share this brief version of a Map of Relationships. I can give this in about 10 minutes and still point people in the "right" direction.    more »
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View Article  Map of Relationships: 2003 Version
This is the whole story of intimate relationships. I wrote this early version in the September of 2003, after all the pieces had fallen into place in my head.    more »
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View Article  The Biological Dream: An Excerpt
The Biological Dream is the core of my beliefs about the function of Romantic Relationships. This is an excerpt from my essay on the Map of Relationships.    more »
View Article  What kind of Community are we designed for?
An article from 1999, that shows the development of my thinking at that point about the role of a community in safety for the individual.   more »